What would you do if
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……You saw your friends wife on a dating site, presenting herself as a single woman??????
First the facts:
He’s really not a friend, just a guy I know
His wife is really hot
and…well, what else matters..lol
Here’s the thing…When I saw her, I wasn’t really sure it was her. I couldn’t tell from the pictures. So I sent her a message, which led to some texting and phone conversation. But I still wasn’t sure.
I mean, it looked like her and sounded like her. Even her phone number was eerily similar. But I wasn’t convinced yet. I mean, you can’t get over on The Doc that easy baby. So, we arranged to meet!
So we met at a local sports bar. Now at first, when she was walking up, I thought she looked really familiar but then she said “Hey Doc, long time no see, how have you been?”….and in my head I”m thinking, “yeah yeah yeah, nice try baby, but I’m still not convinced”.
So I just played along, making small talk, etc etc. But remember, at this point I’m not even thinking about if I should tell him or not. I’m still trying to be 100% positive that it’s her. After a few drinks and friendly conversation, we decided to go to a club, have a few more drinks and do a little dirty dancing.
We had to go right? I mean out of respect for this guy I barely know and to be thorough in trying to identify her, it was an important step in the process. I didn’t want to just jump the gun you know.
After a couple of hours of watching her bounce and gyrate, and slamming shots of Jack daniels like my life depended on it, wouldn’t you know my decision making process wasn’t real sharp and i decided to stop thinking about it and just have fun.
The next morning when she left, she looked at me in a way that felt familiar, like I knew her from somewhere..but I still wasn’t sure. Well, we’ve been seeing each other for a few months and I’m still not sure. We’re going out this weekend and I’m really thinking about just asking her, but I probably won’t…lol
It’s getting to the point where I feel like I should probably be starting to feel a little guilty if it is her, but I”m not there yet, and why ruin a GREAT thing???????
But what would you do? I’m a little jaded, someone point me in the right direction 